●MyPastPresentFuture●

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

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If you can't wash it off, paint over it, replace the item, or buff it out, turn a message of hate into one of love!

I would never condone someone to do this discreetly and in mere seconds with a quickly concealed permanent marker, for example on a public bench or bus stop. Certainly not anything like whipping out a tat machine and adding to an unconscious white supremacist's existing tattoo. That would be illegal! :) And, dear followers, I would never encourage you to do something that's illegal.

So, please only use this when someone has defaced your personal property to avoid breaking the law! Because that would be illegal, and following in the law is always in everyone's best interest. :)

.... :) reblogs and even reposts definitely welcome

queer-ace
strawberry-crocodile

I had a conversation with a cis friend of mine where the topic of body image came up; we've been friends for about a decade now. Obviously I've started going through changes, but he had too; he's changed his hairstyle, got fitter, started wearing less loose clothing, and I realized that he was cis, yes, but he was still going through the process of discovering himself and his gender presentation.

I was talking with my cis brother about how trans people talk about gender beyond the binary; how certain specific aesthetics or characters can be part of our self image, and he said "Oh! Aragorn is my gender." (And for the record he was very correct)

Maybe I'm an idealist here but I think that the trans experience of self discovery and self creation is not inherently exclusive to the trans experience. We all live in a world with behavioral and physical expectations forced on us, and we all could do to examine how we relate to those expectations and who we really want to be. Most people will fall closer to expectations than outliers, but I think these kinds of things are a universal experience that our society denies.

kellylogs

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: this right here is why I feel earnest anger and pity on behalf of cis people, cishet people especially. Most of them have either never explored what this huge aspect of who they are means to them, or done so only unintentionally. Even when they do explore or experiment, they must do so without allowing themselves to look at possibilities beyond preset bounds. It means they almost never get to a place they'll be really happy with, and that, no matter what the result, they feel obligated to dig in and never consider they might want to revisit the question again some day.

In exploring your gender, you may find something is wrong for you. You may also decide that everything is working as intended. Either way, that's your business, and so is anything you do or do not decide to do about it. The process is what matters most here. The journey is how you learn about and create yourself, to emerge feeling more comfortable and confident in your own identity.

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a-demon-femme

Lesbian communities are so blatantly anti black and anti fat it’s kind of scary. Like, Sorry I’m not the bubbly 5’2, 90lb femme of your dreams.

trixic-frankenman

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queerests

[ID: screenshot of tags that read: "#gay communities feel so aggressively white #it's hard to feel wanted and attractive when you're not in their very white idealistic range #it's incredibly fatphobic and racist #i'm not plus sized by any means but you wouldn't believe how many times I've been made to feel "fat" because I'm tall and black #I got thick thighs and that's really it #it's wild and ridiculous #also people ask if I'm masc all the time.. like bitch do I look masc in this winged eyeliner and zip up corset with my titties out???? #they will straight up assume I'm a top/domme or masc #JUST CUZ I'M BLACK TALL AND HAVE A BIG PERSONALITY #have you even looked at me WITH YOUR EYES??? /End ID]

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arahir

i have a story. so for the past week i've not been sleeping very well because i got a new job that has me on call to do odd tasks for wealthy people. i won't get into it, but i will say that it kept me up until 4am a couple nights in a row, and once i'm up until 4am i have no chance of going back to sleep. this is relevant only because that job ended yesterday, and in celebration i decided i was going to get a full night's sleep. like a FULL night's sleep. so 7pm rolls around, i got my dinner made, it's an acorn squash stuffed with sage and mushrooms, i eat the WHOLE THING. don't even put away the dishes. leave those dishes out. take a nice long shower, get all cleaned up, immaculate. and then i get in bed and i think--and this was my first mistake as you're going to see--some dumb shit always wakes me up, but not tonight. oh no, not tonight. i have a plan. i set my phone on do not disturb mode with the blissful certainty of someone about to make the worst mistake of their recent life, and then i get in bed. it's a full on snork mimimi situation. i crashed, and when i say crashed, i mean that even when my alarm on my phone (that i forgot to turn off) went of at 12:33am (hell, hellish alarm setting), it didn't wake me up. i was out. i was out cold.

i was out so cold that when something opened my back door at 5am, i didn't hear my security alarm going off.

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